Some wisdom from a butterfly.

On the weekend I was at a butterfly conservatory, where they have dozens of varieties of different butterflies.  All so different and amazing.  Since they had so many different and amazing varieties, I was paying special attention to everything around me.  It was then that I noticed this particular butterfly, it almost blended into the walls and the trees at first.  It was very dull and unattractive compared to the other butterflies. My initial reaction was to feel sorry for it, especially in a conservatory full of such beautiful and vibrant butterflies.  It was then that I suddenly noticed this stunning blue butterfly fluttering by.  It was so beautiful!!  An electric blue colour and stood out far and above all the other beautiful butterflies.  I was so drawn to it and started following it around so that I could get a picture of it.  It was mighty hard to get a picture because everybody was trying to follow it to get a snap of its beauty.  When it finally stopped, the most amazing thing happened, it folded its wings and became the "ugly" butterfly that blended into the wall.

Ladies, when you have your coat of armour on, when you don't embrace your beauty, when you don't love yourself fully, when you are in your masculine energy, when you stay at home and don't go on dates, when you hide behind baggy clothes, when you walk with you head down and don't let anyone see your beautiful smile, you become like this butterfly when it folds its wings, walled off and nearly invisible to others around you.  You deny the world the incredible pleasure of seeing your exquisite unique beauty.  So spread those wings and fly.  Smile and go out and shine your light. You are at your irresistible best when you do and the world is dying to catch a glimpse of the amazing beauty that is you.  When you can flutter around in your sweet feminine power, bathed in the light of self love, this is when you become a magnet, not just for men, but for everyone!

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